She comes close lean against him and hold his hand while looking deep into his eyes.
“Darling, will you hold my purse?”
Never-mind whether the bag is very expensive and of big brand. but in that moment her bags seems to be a big haunting Gorilla to a man. But at that time the man will be in trouble as if he says no He might hurt her feelings.
For many men, however, being forced with a handbag means being unwillingly thrust onto alien terrain.
”I do hold it, but personally I don’t like. If I hold it then I stands with my wife so that people don’t think that it is mine” said Sanjeev Dogra, 41.”
Of course, all men are not purse phobic.
Mr. Arun Uday, an IT professional from Gurgaon told that there is no harm in carrying your wife’s or GF’s Bag if it is heavy or simply if she want us to hold it. For Pregnent lady also it is fine. And if wife is carrying baby. Then we are supposed to help her and show some concern.
Same when we asked same question from Women, their response was awesome…
“The reason I don’t let him carry my handbag is because, that is my handbag. If I don’t want to carry one, I would not even bring one out. Why go all the way to bring your handbag out only to ask your man to carry it for you just because you are tired of carrying it?”, told Shivani Aggarwal, 25, Delhi.
When it comes to grocery bags and shopping bags, I’ll never argue with him. I’ll let him carry them all as long as he can manage. I have absolutely no problem of seeing him with 2 handful of paper bags. 🙂 That, only shows that he is macho enough to carry all the loads for me. 😀
So, the keyword here is, HANDBAG.
If it is his handbag (for men), I would not say a word, I would even say it’s tasteful for a man to carry a good messenger bag or backpack. If it is your girlfriend’s or wife’s handbag, please, let it stays on her shoulder. No way a man would look tasteful or graceful with that PINK color cute little handbag!!!